DEDICATED ASSOCIATES Personal & Professional Development Solutions

 with Robert Jenkins BA CertEd MA DipCouns CTA

 

Hello and welcome

If you're looking for a counsellor or psychotherapist in or around Bradford, West Yorkshire – whether for yourself or someone you care about – then this site will interest you.

This page is about me and my work as a therapist – my qualifications, experience and limitations, plus bits of background information (click on the underlined links*) and opinion. I hope it gives you some idea of my approach to people and their concerns. The second page is about coaching and other professional development services for individuals and organisations wanting to 'be the best' at what they do.

Have a read. If you want to know more, you're welcome to contact me by phone, mobile (including by text) or email. You can be sure that your enquiry will be dealt with in strict confidence.

Robert Jenkins

Phone: 01274 491471

Mobile: 07762 266800

Email: info (at) dedicated.org.uk

*Disclaimer: Links to external sites are offered in good faith for information only. No endorsement is implied, nor responsibility accepted for their content.

 

what talking therapies are

Talking therapies such as counselling and psychotherapy are professional forms of helpful dialogue. Therapy offers a confidential and supportive space in which life problems (examples below) may be sensitively and effectively addressed. The working relationship co-created by practitioner and client helps generate the optimum psychological conditions in which beneficial change can be effected. In essence, therapy acts as the catalyst for this change.

Broadly speaking, counselling focuses on problems in life, psychotherapy on problems with life.

Counselling

If you've been affected by recent stressful events or circumstances, counselling can help you strengthen your coping strategies, recover your ability to respond more creatively and calmly to your situation and find suitable solutions. It may be offered for between five and twenty weekly sessions over two to four months. Most people begin to notice a positive difference within a couple of sessions.

Psychotherapy

If you've been troubled over the longer term by ways of thinking or feeling, beliefs or behaviours that keep making life frustrating or unfulfilling for you, then psychotherapy can help you explore how these may stem from your responses to childhood difficulties or crises, then apply your 'grown-up' understanding to resolving them. By revisiting early life decisions and updating them in line with your current needs and values, it can help you further develop your natural resilience to adversity, and ultimately to take charge of how you live your life.

Most people bring to therapy some combination of these two types of life problem, discovering as they address them and find their own solutions that the problem-solving and developmental aspects of therapy go hand in hand.

Relationship Counselling

For couples, counselling can help raise awareness of what each of you is giving and getting in your relationship (or not), of how you've each changed since you got together and why, and how you might still need to change so that you each get more of what you want from each other and less of what you don't.

what talking therapies are not

GPs may refer their patients, or employers may "recommend" that an employee should "go for counselling". And since talking therapies like counselling are offered on the NHS, many people have come to think of them as "treatments" that have been "prescribed" for whatever is "wrong". They are not treatments. They are opportunities to talk in confidence and without pressure or judgement with a specially trained professional about problems in and of one's life. And to find solutions. Or not. As the client decides.

It's true that various medical problems typically co-occur with anxiety, stress or depression, and that either or both of these types of health issue may well be addressed by talking therapies. But this doesn't make those therapies 'health interventions' or 'medical procedures' like injections or surgery.

Medical approaches involve a diagnosis of symptoms and the prescription of a treatment to alleviate them. Talking therapies are different. They involve setting up a trustful working alliance – co-created by both parties to the therapeutic contract – in which it's the process overall  that 'works' for the client rather than any particular aspect of that process. Studies of different types of talking therapy have consistently shown that specific 'ingredients' of a particular therapy contribute to at most 8% of the outcome, whereas factors common to all talking therapies – especially the quality of the practitioner-client relationship – account for at least 70%. Therefore, to think of talking therapy as a kind of medicine with specific 'procedures' can be misleading. Moreover, to measure its effectiveness in the same way as that of drugs can lead to serious distortions.

talking therapies in the nhs

Sadly, such distortions have now found their way into the NHS. NICE, the body which evaluates medicines and other NHS treatments, has concluded that the more a psychological therapy goes 'by the book', the more likely it is to show certain desired effects, and hence to receive funding. This is because NICE favours trials of therapies which mimic those commonly applied to drugs, while attaching less importance to a much larger (though less quantitative) evidence base for therapy effectiveness. A notable result of this bias is that Manualised Cognitive-Behavioural Therapy (CBT) has become the NICE 'therapy of choice'. As there aren't enough qualified and experienced CBT practitioners, the NHS is re-training qualified and experienced practitioners of non-CBT therapies (like counselling and psychotherapy), hiring less experienced practitioners to cover their absence, and training staff with neither qualifications nor experience in therapy to offer 'low-level' CBT. This strategy is not only highly disruptive of services to NHS patients but also hugely wasteful of existing resources. The government calls this Improving Access to Psychological Therapies. Many experienced NHS counsellors and GPs see it as yet more top-down interference with what was an already well-functioning service. The most likely result in the short to medium term will be longer waiting lists, less choice and lower quality – and all at vastly increased cost to the taxpayer.

what i offer

For individual clients, I offer therapeutic help in discovering their own solutions to a wide range of personal issues and emotional or psychological difficulties. Examples include:

relationships ♦stress bereavement and loss depression anxiety panic ♦parenting assertiveness ♦post-traumatic stress anger low self-esteem or motivation men’s issues ♦bullying and harassment childhood abuse ♦mid-life crisis sexual orientation ♦work/career issues ♦addictions ... among others

I also aim to provide a confidential, supportive and non-judgemental space in which my clients may:

be listened to, understood and accepted develop awareness of thoughts, feelings or behaviour and greater understanding of the connections between them resolve inner conflicts ♦enhance 'emotional literacy' ♦clarify or strengthen identity or sense of self deepen personal relationships make a life-changing decision improve personal or professional effectiveness.

I offer clearly contracted-for and focused therapy over the short to medium term according to client need and commitment. Sessions last one hour and are offered on a weekly basis. Apart from evening sessions [4.30 - 8.00pm] which are heavily subscribed, I can usually offer a lot of flexibility as to day and time.

For couples, I offer relationship counselling.

Please note – to ensure mutual protection my therapy services are offered within a strict code of confidentiality, which may only be breached when serious harm to self or others could not otherwise be prevented.

where i work

I am based in Little Germany, Bradford's central business district, just a few minutes' walk from either of Bradford's train stations, Forster Square or the Interchange. Access by car is easy from the A647 Leeds Road, the A650 Shipley Airedale Road or the A658 Barkerend Road. Parking is available nearby. (Click here for a map.)

My first floor office is a well-appointed and welcoming space, offering safety and privacy. There's no receptionist and no mixing with strangers in a waiting room. Appointments are timed so that you can be seen as soon as you arrive.

 

how i work

My approach to therapy is:

collaborative – working with you and your difficulties, not on you

holistic – taking the whole person into account: mind, body, spirit

integrative – drawing as needed on what the evidence has shown to underlie all successful therapies

educative – facilitating new insights and learnings

I draw largely but not exclusively on Transactional Analysis, a systematic approach to personal development offering highly accessible models for better understanding ourselves and others, solving problems, changing and growing. I use TA as a framework for integrating a range of psychotherapeutic ideas and methods. It's based on the following principles:

everyone is unique, has intrinsic worth, can think, decide (and re-decide) their own destiny, change and grow

the key to a person's present and future development lies in what sense they have made of their lived experience

emotional wellbeing can be enhanced by increasing awareness of human needs, resources and values

TA therapy is very user-friendly, building a trustful client-practitioner relationship through clear, respectful and empathic communication while focusing throughout on the client's needs. It's also solution-focused. Client and practitioner together decide on goals and how to attain them, thus aiming to use no more sessions than necessary.

[Those interested in comparing TA therapy to CBT may like to note that in essence it's a cognitive-behavioural therapy. The main difference is that TA has the potential to be more flexible and relational than the more manualised types of CBT.]

training and qualifications

I completed a five-year accredited post-graduate training in counselling and psychotherapy at Leeds Psychotherapy Training Institute and the Berne Institute, Nottingham, of which I also hold the Diploma in Counselling, plus a two-year practicum leading via written and oral examination to the award of Certified Transactional Analyst (Psychotherapy) status. I have additionally undertaken specialist training in relationship counselling, body psychotherapy and clinical supervision.

professional associations

I uphold the principle of regulation of the psychological therapies in the interests of promoting the highest standards of ethical practice. I maintain my status as a UKCP Registered Psychotherapist and Registered Certified Transactional Analyst Member of the Institute of Transactional Analysis. I am bound by the code of ethics and subject to the complaints procedures of both these organisations.

I do not support the impending (2011) imposition by the UK government of State Regulation of the psychological therapies by the so-called Health Professions Council, a body I regard as wholly unfit for this purpose. This is why I am also an active supporter of the Alliance for Counselling & Psychotherapy, whose mission is to defend the right of practitioner and client to freely enter into a therapeutic relationship of their choosing without being subject to state-prescribed notions by a 'Happiness Czar' of what constitutes 'wellbeing' or of the 'interventions' supposed to bring it about.

experience

I've worked as a therapist since 1996 in various settings, including Bradford University, the mental health charity MIND and two local NHS trusts. In that time I have successfully helped all sorts of people – individuals, couples, young, old, men, women, straight, gay, white, black, Asian – with a wide range of problems and concerns.

My career started in the 70s in teacher education as a university lecturer. Gradually I became interested in pastoral aspects of my work with students and started to train as a counsellor. In the voluntary sector I helped set up telephone help-lines, training and supporting volunteer operators for MIND and other organisations while pursuing psychotherapy training. I am especially proud of my contribution to forming and leading a team of NHS primary care counsellors working in GP surgeries in inner-city Bradford. In 2002 I began to offer a therapy service independently on one evening per week, and in 2005 I left the NHS to develop this practice full-time.

I have had a life-long interest in helping people to develop themselves personally and professionally, and as well as an extensive knowledge and understanding of mental health issues, I bring to this work substantial experience of training, educational guidance, advocacy, support work, management and consultancy.

limitations

This website receives hundreds of hits per month. After a while it became clear that certain questions kept coming up. Here are some answers to these FAQs and, where relevant, 'signposts' to other sources of help in the Bradford / Leeds area

A therapist is not usually in a position to help someone who is actively suicidal. If you're worried about someone who's talking about suicide, read this. If it's you that's feeling suicidal, read this. Accident & Emergency will help in such cases.

Counselling is not necessarily of much use to people who are very recently bereaved. It's normal to feel depressed for a while after losing a loved one. If, after a few weeks, the depression persists, then counselling may be helpful.

There are times in a person's life in which the pressures on them vastly outweigh the availability of support – times of severe crisis or even chaos. At such times, their primary need is for practical rather than therapeutic help – if necessary from statutory services. Therapy, if desired, will be easier to access and use after a degree of stability has been regained.

Making a therapy appointment for someone who isn't willing to be seen is pointless. For advice on supporting someone you can't persuade to seek professional help, ring Bradford Guide-Line on 594594.

Below I list cases which, due to professional limitations, I regret that I am not in a position to help with.

I don't normally work with under-16s. If you're concerned about the mental health of a child, contact your GP. If you're under 16 and need help with a serious problem, ring Child-Line on 0800 1111 (UK only). If you're in danger, ring the police! Also, look at Youth Fax, which is full of helpful information on a range of subjects of concern to young people.

I don't offer sessions on a fortnightly basis until the later stages of the therapy.

I don't do psychological assessments or reports for the courts. Please consult a Chartered Psychologist.

I'm not in a position to offer work placements of any kind. You could try asking local voluntary sector groups.

I don't offer on-line therapy. You will need to google for it. Do be aware of the risks.

I don't offer free counselling. If you're looking for free or low cost counselling, you may like to consider the following agencies and organisations.

---Many people find it helpful to talk initially to their GP. He or she may refer you to a relevant NHS therapy service in or near the practice, or suggest a local voluntary agency (see below). [Note that most NHS therapy services offer 'Stepped Care'. Expect first to be screened by a 'case-worker' prior to a second visit for an assessment, after which you may wait 3 to 9 months for therapy, longer for 'high-level' CBT. If it's counselling you really want, do make this clear from the first meeting.]

---All local universities and some colleges offer free counselling to staff and students, usually without waiting.

---Some employers may provide staff with counselling in-house, or with an independent practitioner. Your problem needn't be work-related. (I am often asked by local employers to provide counselling to members of their staff).

---Other providers of free or low-cost counselling services in and near Bradford include Leeds MIND, Leeds Counselling North Kirklees MIND Off-The-Record, Leeds Women's Counselling and Psychotherapy Service, Bradford Relate, Bradford Rape Crisis & Sexual Abuse Survivors Service (Females only) , Bradford Bereavement Support and  Mesmac.

feedback from clients

I'm confident I can help to make a positive difference for everyone I agree to work with in therapy. Read what former clients have said about me and my approach:

"Thank you so much for helping me these last months. ... I'm a new person."

"Your warm and friendly approach has been completely different to the counselling I've had previously and it seems to have worked really well for me.... Your help has been invaluable."

"I felt much better after only a couple of sessions. Wish I'd sought help earlier!"

Here are some comments from people's evaluations of personal development groups I've led:

"In this workshop I've finally learned how to say 'No' and mean it!"

"Bob is an excellent facilitator for this type of workshop. He is very pleasant, easy to be with, very knowledgeable, sensitive and enthusiastic."

"First class course and organisation."

choosing a therapist

It's gratifying to know that my contribution has benefited the vast majority of those who have sought my help. However, I do not pretend that everyone has left entirely satisfied. No practitioner can be 'right' for every client they meet.

The choice of a therapy practitioner is very personal. He or she may look great on paper, but details of training, qualifications, experience etc will not tell you much about the personal qualities you may be looking for in the practitioner you are going to hire. The only way to find out what the person is really like is to meet them. By all means follow your head when gathering information, but never ignore your 'gut'.

You may also want to look at other sources of advice on choosing and working with a therapist. Denis Postle's Clients' Guide to Psychotherapy will help you focus on what's important to you in your choice of practitioner and what questions to ask him or her. Also, even though it's a bit out of date now, you may like to download the NHS leaflet Choosing Talking Therapies.

making contact

To contact me – whether to find out more or make a preliminary appointment – please send a (short) email by clicking here. Alternatively, phone 01274 491471 or text 077 622 668 00. Your privacy is respected at all times and all enquiries are treated in strict confidence.

I can usually offer a preliminary appointment within days. This is an opportunity to talk without obligation on either side about you and your concerns, how counselling or psychotherapy might be useful to you and whether my approach is what you're looking for – as well as to check out your 'gut' feeling about it, of course. If you subsequently decide to work with me, we'll take it from there. If you (or I) decide I'm not suitable, I'll be very happy, if required, to help you find someone who is.

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This site was last updated on 1 May 2009. Comments and feedback are always welcome and will be acknowledged.

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